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How does one succeed in life?

08.06.2025 07:02

How does one succeed in life?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Ask yourself:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What are your political and economic beliefs? How did you form them, especially in comparison to those who hold opposing views?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.